Restorative justice for adults who have caused harm

If you’ve done the wrong thing and you’re facing criminal charges, you might not know where to turn or how to make things right. If this is how you’re feeling, restorative justice may help.

Restorative justice gives you the opportunity to talk to the person you harmed, take responsibility and try to make amends. It can help you get back on track and be the person you want to be.

Restorative justice conferences

A restorative justice conference is a voluntary meeting between you and the person you have harmed. This can be hard, but it can help you make different choices in the future. Learn more about adult restorative justice conferences.

Support person

You’re encouraged to bring a support person with you. This could be a family member, friend or community elder.

Your support person can help you feel more comfortable during a conference. They can encourage you to take responsibility and put things right.

What is said can’t be used against you

Restorative justice is confidential. What you talk about before and during the conference is private. It will not be disclosed to any other parties without your consent, unless required by law.

If you don’t agree with the charges

You will need to agree to the basic facts of the case to take part in restorative justice. You must:

  • acknowledge you have caused harm
  • take responsibility for your actions
  • be willing to find an acceptable way to make amends.

Whether participating affects the charges

This is a matter for the agency that refers you. You may wish to speak with them or get legal advice.

Before the conference

There are several things that happen before the conference, so it is helpful and supports healing.

The convenor will meet with you and the person you harmed separately.

When they meet with you, they will:

  • talk to you about what happened
  • explain the process—including who else can attend
  • answer your questions.

If you decide to go ahead, they will help you prepare for the conference. This includes thinking about what you would agree to do to repair the harm (called the outcome).

You and the other person will need to agree on an outcome for the conference to go ahead. Once you have, the convenor will set up a time for the conference.

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Outcomes the person harmed can request

The person you harmed will tell you what they need you to do to make things right. This must meet their needs, but it must also be safe, legal, achievable, and fair. It must be something you can do within 6 months.

Some common outcomes are:

  • an apology
  • a payment to acknowledge suffering and/or cover costs
  • an agreement that you will attend counselling or other programs
  • a promise that you will not repeat the behaviour
  • a donation to charity.

If you cannot agree on an outcome, the convenor will try to help you both find another solution. If this is not possible, we will close your matter and return it to the referring agency.

At the conference

You’ll need to take responsibility and acknowledge the impact of your actions at the conference.

You can talk about how and why the incident happened. The other person may also talk about the incident and describe how it has impacted their life. They might want to ask you questions.

You will need to:

  • listen to what they have to say
  • think about the choices you’ve made
  • understand how your behaviour has affected others
  • take steps to put things right.

It may be uncomfortable to hear about the harm you caused, but it’s important to listen so everyone can heal and move forward.

Restorative outcome plan

If you and the person you harmed can agree on an outcome, you can create a written agreement together at the conference.

The agreement is called a Restorative outcome plan. It will outline what has happened in the conference and what you will do to make amends.

The agreement is not legally binding, but it is monitored by the convenor.

What happens at a face-to-face conference

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After the conference

The convenor will tell the agency that referred you that the conference has taken place. With consent from you and the other person, they will provide the referrer with a copy of the Restorative outcome plan.

You must do what you agreed to do—you may need to provide evidence. Once you have done this, the referring agency will be told.

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